Let's say you've just spent 15 minutes explaining your frustrations with him.
You've reached your limit, and now you decide to have it out with him. Guys don't respond to women's emotional expression in the best way.Īfter a few weeks of relationship problems, you've had enough. Yeah, you might have heard me say this once or twice. Why he goes distant on you - REASON #1: He's overwhelmed. I'll tell you what that special thing is in a bit, but first, let's talk about what makes guys shut down emotionally and grow cold.
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That being said, I think guys need to know how to BETTER communicate their emotions to women.Īnd truthfully, we will share our feelings more - if you do something first. It's okay in your girlfriends, but not in a guy. No matter how much you WANT a guy to be more emotional, you also know you'd get sick of that really quickly. Almost like clockwork.įACT: Men are not attractive when overly emotional. I used to pull that on some women back in my 20s, and I noticed that they would lose attraction for me in just a few dates. So while you might THINK this is a shortcoming, you would actually get really sick and tired of a guy who was emotional all the time. In most men's experience, we never win by being emotionally transparent to anyone. We just keep them out of sight.įACT: Men are never rewarded for being "more emotional" or expressive. Men seem emotionally distant.īut here's the honest-to-gosh truth: Men feel emotions just as deeply as women do.